After the wedding, it's common to view your spouse in a new, perhaps disappointing light. Here's what you can do about it.
Time. The longer youâre married, the more time you have to observe your spouseâs behavior. You see things that werenât as noticeable back then.
Distance. You now see him up close. Thereâs no end to the date, no "See you next week." The artificial nature of dating keeps many behaviors concealed. You currently see him when heâs hungry and tired. Women may have their "time of month," but men have their "time of day." When his stomach is empty you may see a whole new side of your man you never knew existed.